Children will usually assume the social status of their parents, as if they are the ones who earn the living, and therefore are themselves rich or poor. As children become adults, they are then often confused when they find that mommy and daddy do not necessarily dictate the standard of living within the perspective offspring’s personal household. This can lead to shock or elation, depending on the circumstance.
Western Christianity has failed, in at least two areas, to prepare those who profess Christianity, with regards to life and death.
First, the materialistic and narcissistic philosophy of Westerners, especially within the American culture, has developed an individualistic perversion of the Christian faith. Most Western Christians are attracted to the faith because of the assumption that it is about “my” salvation, and “my” relationship with Jesus. This mentality is so prevalent and deeply rooted that even this discussion gives cause for offense to some. The “unity” message of Jesus establishes Jesus’ desire that his imitators not express individualism, but literally live as one (s. John 17:22).
With the self-centeredness that seems to pervade the Christian faith in the West, it is no wonder that worship is often nothing more than a crowd of individuals that are rarely concerned about, nor genuinely familiar with, many of those with whom he or she is worshiping. The stench of selfish desire within worship reminds me of where one goes to be alone in his or her own house, which is usually the bathroom, and not the family room.
The second area of failure within the common experience of Christianity is a misunderstanding of what happens upon ones death. The typical proactive counsel of the Christian is to share that the one who has died has gone on to a “better place.” This assumption is largely based on three passages of Scripture – Luke 23:43, 2 Corinthians 5:6-8, and Philippians 1:21-24.
The first passage includes a reference to “paradise”, which is παράδεισος, a Greek word that is rooted in an Old Persian word meaning garden, park, or enclosure, and was also used as a reference to the Garden of Eden – the place of peace, safety, and innocence. παράδεισος is not a word that means “heaven” as in the eternal sense of the word, but, I would suggest, is a word which signifies the end of pain and guilt.
The belief that eternal heaven is immediately experienced upon one’s death is a notion that unwittingly removes the need for the major message of the Gospel of Jesus – the miracle and great anticipation of the future resurrection. “For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first” (1Th 4:16 NIV). Those who are “dead” will rise “first.” If those who are dead are already in heaven, the resurrection of the dead would not be necessary, but only a gathering together of those who have already gone to heaven with those who have not yet gone.
Another important aspect of understanding this passage has to do with what it means to be dead, and what “Heaven” is.
When one died, in the Biblical period, he or she was beleived to have gone to sheol or hades, which means the place of the dead, the grave, or the underworld.
Heaven is a word that is not only a synonym for God, it is also used to refer to the place of God’s dwelling, and a reference to God’s people. The Kingdom of Heaven is the “people of God.” The ultimate goal of God is to join heaven and earth together, so that God’s will is done on earth as it is done in heaven (s. Matthew 6:10). The earth was initially created to be God’s abode, in which man would share life with God. Upon the resurrection, God’s original plan will be reclaimed.
As Christ’s followers usher in the Kingdom of Heaven with acts of mercy and justice in life, death will eventually come to them, barring the return of Christ. But death is not simply a passing into bliss; it is a time of rest as the dead in Christ await the return of the Messiah, the resurrection, and the fullness of the Kingdom of Heaven, which is God’s act of creating a new heaven and a new earth for His dwelling place.
“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything in it will be laid bare. Since everything will be destroyed in this way, what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming. That day will bring about the destruction of the heavens by fire, and the elements will melt in the heat. But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, the home of righteousness” (2Pe 3:9-13 NIV).
And the resurrection and arrival of the fullness of the Kingdom of Heaven will not only be a dwelling place for God, but also for his people.
“Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, ‘Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away’” (Rev 21:1-4 NIV).
Many of us will sleep, while awaiting the resurrection. “Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed– (1Co 15:51 NIV).” Sleep is a translation of κοιμάω, which means the “sleep of death.” Not all of us will die before the return of Christ, but we will all be changed from the form of our earthly bodies, whether dead or alive, into heavenly bodies (s. 1 Corinthians 15:40ff.).
It is the me-oriented philosophy that makes it difficult to imagine that a person will not immediately be ushered into the heavens upon his or her death – “I am too important to be allowed to wait!” But all we have to do to dispel this narcissistic attitude is to remember that before we were born, we were unaware of existence at all. And just as we waited our own conception in our mother’s womb, without any foreknowledge, we may just as well await the resurrection with the same unconscious existence. Though I am tempted to accept that a complete incognizant existence awaits us upon death, until our resurrection, it may also be that paradise is a literal place of waiting for the resurrection as well.
But either way, death is a reason to hurt. It is one of the many evidences of the fact that God’s Kingdom, though present in his people, is not yet fully present. Pain, guilt, longing, sin, and death give us cause to cry and hurt. The trauma of death is not to be flippantly dismissed with words of blissful promises to those who have lost loved ones, as if death should not cause pain, but the experience of death for those still living is to serve as a reminder of the hope of resurrection. Even Jesus cried over death (s. Jon 11:35).
The Scriptures are not as clear on the subject of death as we would like, but the debate continues, as it should. In the end, God’s Kingdom will exist according to His pleasure, which includes the company of His children. And whether we wait unaware of our waiting, or we wait in the garden, the promise of the resurrection gives great hope to believers who know that we will once again experience the company of those we love, and the presence of the Alpha and Omega – Jesus, forever.
In His dust,
Johnny
Works Cited:
Father Rohr, Richard “Politics and Spirituality.” Online. 7 July 2007.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeF7V6PYFqE&feature=related
Bishop Wright, N. T. “Life After ‘Life After Death.’” Online. 1 March 2008.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z50Jv-PXYb4
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